失恋了找谁?这的确是个挺艰难挺现实的问题。让我们先看一个意味深长的民间传说。宋代,蔡襄的母亲怀他乘船过泉州的洛阳江时,见江上风高浪险,曾当即许下心愿:“我儿出世后若能当官,一定要在这里修一座桥,方便行人。”后来蔡襄果然当了朱州太守,并下定决心在这里修桥。不料江水湍急,放入 Who is looking for romance? This is indeed a very difficult problem. Let us first look at a meaningful folk legend. In the Song Dynasty, when Cai Xiang’s mother carried him across the Luoyang River in Quanzhou, he saw the great wind and waves and immediately made his wish: “If my son is an officer after his birth, we must fix a bridge here for the convenience of pedestrians.” Later, Cai Xiang really became Zhuzhou Prefecture, and determined to build bridges here. Unexpectedly, the rapid river, into