“望子成龙,望女成凤”是每个家长的心愿,但是有时这个美好的心愿会因各种原因,而大打折扣,甚至于“变调”。究其根源,主要是由于为人父母者施爱不当,以至于爱心“走串”所致。其表现形式如下: 1.平常心变补偿心。有的家长看到自己因为没有某方面的能力而经常吃亏、上当,就希望孩子能在这一方面有所建树,于是逼着孩子补习这方面技能,根本不顾及孩子的兴趣和天赋,这看似让其“艺多不压人”的作法,其实出自一 “Succeed, hopeful woman” is the wish of every parent, but sometimes this beautiful wish for a variety of reasons, greatly reduced, or even “change tone.” The root causes are mainly due to improper love for parents and caregiving, so much so that “loving hearts and minds” walk. Its manifestations are as follows: 1. Some parents see themselves often lose money because they do not have the ability to do something. When they are fooled, they hope that their children can accomplish something in this respect. Therefore, forcing their children to tutoring their skills in this respect simply ignores the children’s interests and talents Seems to let its “art does not pressure people” approach, in fact, from one