心好像一扇厚重的城堡之门,没有外面的锁,只有里面的闩,别人在外面怎么使劲地踹,不如自己在里面轻轻一拨。——庞永力《青黄》旅行是最劳顿、最麻烦、叫人本性毕现的时候。经过长期痛苦旅行而彼此不讨厌的人,才可结交做朋友。结婚以后的蜜月旅行是次序颠倒的,应该先旅行一个月,一个月舟车仆仆以后,双方还没有彼此看破、彼此厌恶,还要维持原来的婚约,这种夫妇保证不会离婚。——钱钟书《围城》可能等你过完自己的一生, Heart like a thick castle door, no lock outside, only the latch inside, others how hard outside 踹, ​​as it gently in his dial. - Pang Yongli “green” travel is the most law and order, the most troublesome, when the human nature is completed. After long painful travel and not annoying each other, can make friends. Honeymoon after marriage is the order reversed, should travel a month, a month after a car, the two sides have not seen each other, mutual dislike, but also to maintain the original engagement, the couple promised not to divorce. - Qian Zhongshu “siege” may wait for you to finish your life,