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人类本质里最深远的驱策力就是希望具有重要性,每个人都希望被称赞,在心理学意义上源自于个体渴望被尊重、被认可的精神需求。一旦这种精神需求被满足,人就会充满自信和动力。但是在日常生活和学习中,家长或者老师总会不经意的批评、甚至训斥孩子和学生,难免会打击孩子或者学生的自信心,本文结合笔者亲身经历,来谈谈称赞的重要性及如何称赞。
The most far-reaching driving force in the nature of human beings is that hope is of importance. Everyone wants to be praised. In the psychological sense, it is derived from the spiritual needs that individuals desire to be respected and recognized. Once this spiritual need is met, people will be full of confidence and motivation. However, in daily life and learning, parents or teachers always inadvertently criticism, and even scolded children and students, will inevitably hit children or students self-confidence, this article combined with my personal experience, to talk about the importance of praising and how to be praised.